Here's how to get your ex back

Tips that you can use to convince your former partner to rekindle your broken relationship and get back.
When you decide to break up with your partner, you have all the valid reasons in the world in that moment regarding why you do not want to be with him or her. So, you part ways and feel that the right thing has been done. But what happens if, after the break up, you realise that maybe your decision to part ways was after all based on an impulse?
So, now you have already broken up but really want to get back with your partner.Yes, it is possible, but there could be a variety of situations you might have to deal with before you actually manage to get him or her back. Read on for tips on how to get the ex back depending on which situation you are faced with:
SITUATION 1
You decided to end it
If you were the one who decided to end the relationship, your partner might be feeling hurt or angry or both. If, at this point, you apologise or try to mend broken walls, there is no guarantee that he or she will come back. But, hey, there is no harm in trying.
The strategy: If the above is the case then be very subtle in your approach. Ask your ex to meet you in a place that is not too crowded but ensure it is neutral ground. Be very brief about your apology or explanations but make sure it comes across as sincere. Remain calm and composed and don't be too dramatic. Simply state that you would like to get back together and after that the only thing you can do is wait for him or her to respond.
SITUATION 2
He or she decided to end it
This situation is a tricky one. If your partner was the one who decided to end the relationship , it might be a little harder than if you ended it. The first thing you need to figure out is if you want to get back simply because you can't stand being the one who got left behind or whether you really have feelings for this person. Make sure your reasons for wanting to get back are genuine.
The strategy: This is a step by step procedure: The first thing you need to do is figure out why the relationship ended. Was it because you were always flirting with other people, or he or she was doing the same, or because there was too much fighting. If you were in the wrong then take responsibility for your actions and assure him or her it won't be the same way again.
Reignite the flame
If the above works and the air has been cleared a little ��� you need to remind your man or woman that you're a match made in heaven. Try tempting him or her a little by inviting them to do something with you that once made the two of you insanely happy. And then make sure he or she realises how much fun you're having, just like old times.
The sex factor
Although this one is a little tricky, sex usually works wonders when it comes to fixing broken relationships. But be warned that sex is not the only thing that makes a relationship work. So, if you are using sexuality, at the same time understand that just because you manage to have sex with your ex it does not mean things are sorted.
SITUATION 3
The third party
This is probably the hardest thing to deal with. If your ex has moved on and is already dating someone else then you really need to initially take a backseat initially and weigh your pros and cons.
The strategy: Give him or her breathing space and view this interlude as an opportunity for both of you to grow. Allow your ex and his or her new boyfriend or girlfriend enough space to self-combust ��� if it's a rebound relationship this is a distinct possibility. Call your ex a couple of months down the track ��� chances are, his or her new relationship is over but if it's not, you have no choice but to move on yourself.
It is hard to lose someone you really love. So try your best to get him or her back, but if you can't, then just accept it, there will be other people who you will love, just give yourself time.